Tuesday, October 27, 2009

husband and wife making love - 5 Tips For Better Lovemaking

5 Tips For Better Lovemaking

By Michael Webb
Author of 500 Lovemaking Tips Ebook



Here are five really simple ways to make your
lovemaking more hot, steamy and passionate… (Even
starting tonight). This is the secret for husband and wife making love:


1. Find your partner’s “hidden” zones

I call these “hidden” zones because many people
don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the
body LOVE attention.

While many of these zones are obvious, like the
lips, breasts, inner thighs and genitals, there are
also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed,
can drive your partner wild and even intensify
their orgasm.

Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair
are all really sensitive areas that love to be
stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay
caressing and touching these areas, and watch how
it pleases your partner.


2. Set a romantic mood

People often think that using candles, music,
incense and even rose petals to set the mood of
your lovemaking is too “cliché.” Are they kidding!
Your partner will LOVE YOU for this.

Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone
went to all the trouble to create a special
lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years
to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people
enjoy it so much? Point made.


3. Give them a sensual massage

Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further
and give your partner a sensual massage that makes
them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make
it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable.

Massage them naked or build up the anticipation by
having them slowly undress during the massage. Then
kiss, caress and slowly transition “under the
sheets” where a massage of another kind can take
place.

And no, you don’t need years of study to give a
great massage. Just grab some candles and music,
and bless your partner with an experience they’ll
never forget.


4. Please your partner with more oral sex

Did you know that oral sex is a great way to
strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It
takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody
have their mouth down there. Not to mention it’s
great for men who want to relax without pressure to
perform, and for women who can’t reach orgasm from
only intercourse. In short, it’s an important part
of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and
women.

LADIES: Women often start fellatio by sucking on
the penis straight away when, actually, they should
start with some playful teasing and soft touches.
This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it
heightens his anticipation.

GENTLEMAN: A mistake men often make is moving their
tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the
vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should
lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip
to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet
around the clitoris with your tongue.


5. Constantly explore and try new things

If I could only give you one piece of advice for
better lovemaking, it would be this: become
adventurous and creative.

Nothing is stopping you from red-hot passion except
your level of creativity. Try a new position, do it
somewhere new, or spice up your foreplay with a
game.

Let’s face it, the basic act of lovemaking, no
matter how hard you try, is always kiss and thrust,
but it’s HOW you do it and the way you make your
partner feel that really counts.

By dedicating time to finding new things, you can
turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary
lovemaking. This is the sure-fire way to make sure
your lovemaking stays passionate, pleasurable, and
intimate for years to come.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500
Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up
your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and
intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit:
Click Here To Download This Amazing Guide

Monday, October 12, 2009

Dirty Talk Phrases - Spice Up The Bedroom With A Whole New Range of Dirty Talk Phrases

What do you say when your dirty talk phrases don't excite him, or you for that matter, anymore? Nothing you say seems to excite him like the first time you whispered those dirty talk phrases into his ears. What can you do to spice up a relationship that is already rampant with dirty talk phrases and naughty words?

Well...why not try new dirty talk phrases?

All men think that they know all about dirty talk phrases. Men think that they've heard everything, and depending on your creativity, they might be right! You may have already had to repeat certain dirty talk phrases, or scenarios if you're a veteran of dirty talk.

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Never get bored with the same old bedroom talk again!
Make the sex just as good as when you first met again!
Bring back his virility and passion!
Never have to work to get him in the mood!
Bring out your inner sultry vixen!

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So how can you surprise him with dirty talk that he wont see coming a mile away?

Simple! Talk dirty in a language that he won't understand!

It'll take a bit of planning, becuase he can't know that you know another language. Get a few foreign language lesson tapes and listen to them when he's not around. Teach yourself how to say phrases that aren't necessarily dirty, but are suggestive, such as "Are you going to eat that?" or "What do you want?" Practice them like they would be used in casual conversation, then try them with that bedroom voice of yours!

So when you're ready and in bed with him, look him in the eye and say a phrase in the language. Keep it up, even if he stares at you or laughs. The sultry tone of your voice is what will really trip his trigger! He doesn't know what you're saying, so he's going to have to go on instinct.

Suddenly your man has a sultry vixen in bed and he doesn't know her as well as he thought! That's a turn-on for any guy who loves a little adventure. Knowing what dirty talk phrases to say is just one of the many dirty talk tips that will spice up your sex life - no matter how much of a dirty talk pro you already are!

Click here to learn yet even more ways to use dirty talk phrases in the bedroom!


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Saturday, October 3, 2009

5 Things That Will Drive Your Man Wild In Bed!!!

  1. SHOW UP: This is vital. If you’re not going to follow this one, I’d say forget the whole thing. If you go to his bed (or car/stairwell/clocktower/beneath an opera house writing the music of the night, etc.) you are well on your way to driving him wild. Like, more than halfway, I’d say. Call it 60%. Sold.
  2. BE ALIVE: Very important as well. Don’t skip this step just because it seems easy.
  3. HAVE FUN: This isn’t a trip to the dentist, right? (Unless your man IS your dentist, in which case, congrats!) Just remember that regardless of whatever you’re doing to him, if YOU’RE not having fun, the only guy who will be “driven wild” is the guy who doesn’t give a flying crapmobile whether or not you’re having fun. Oh and by the way, you’re not having fun. Which, if you think about it, isn’t that fun. Like, almost ever. Seriously, look it up.
  4. COMMUNICATE WHAT YOU WANT: Ideally, communicate it to him. And if you followed step one above, he ought to be the most convenient person to tell anyway. (Or at least in the top two.) He will LOVE this. Plus if you tell him what you want, it has the added benefit of making it remotely possible for you to maybe, you know, GET it. (See: HAVE FUN)
  5. PAY ATTENTION: Believe it or not, just like women, men are actually all at least slightly different from one another. (Some are named “Dave” for example, and some of them are totally not.) No dude wants to think that you’re just running through some weird magazine checklist you read — kind of makes us wonder how many other dudes have received this checklist from you, and we don’t really want to be thinking about them when our pants are off. I mean, don’t get me wrong — we’ll take the checklist of moves. But it won’t be as fun. Plus we’ll probably tell our idiot friends about it.
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