Saturday, June 6, 2009

How do I "talk dirty"? - question & answer

people ask:


How do I "talk dirty"?

my boyfriend wants me to talk dirty in bed. I'm not against the idea, but I'm always afraid it will just come off sounding cheesy. Is there something subtle I can say and still be sexy? What do guys like to hear?


several answer that are releven:

answer 1: I've been in your shoes before, and I learned that taking it slow is the best way. Don't get carried away the first time. Then it just sounds fake. Whisper in his ear that you like a certain thing that he's doing. Or that it feels good. Or even if you tell him to do a certain thing...all guys love that. But don't make it too serious either.

answer 2:Other suggestions-- just describe what's going on, but in the imperative. "Yeah suck that..." "oh yea stick that in..." "feel that wet..." You don't have to think about anything... just describe. Or you can do the same but ask questions (either real or rhetorical) "Do you like that wet...?" "How hard can you make...?"

Your guy may want just to hear you say dirty words. That may be enough.

But in general, the guy's looking to hear your signs of approval, pleasure, and demands.

answer 3:tell him how what he is doing feels, tell him what you want to do to him. whispering always works for me. good luck

answer 4:tell him hes sexy or hot while ur doing the nasty, and comment on how big his "you know" is ;)

answer 5:Strangly, text sex gave me good practice.

You don't have to muster up the courage to actually say it, all you have to do it think of something dirty and hit SEND.

He really wants you to tell him how much he turns you on, how great he makes you feel and make demands. "Come over here and lick my... It turns me on to... It's feels so good when you... I love it when you.... oh, right there!!"

now which is the best answer do you think??

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