How to Talk Dirty to Guys By Denise Brienne

Do you want to talk dirty to a guy, but you don't know where to start? Approaching someone in the middle of a bar and saying "I want to talk dirty to you" just might work wonders, but most of us aren't brave enough to follow through on something so bold. How do you find a fine balance between being a lady and being...well, something a little brasher?

Talking dirty to a guy is not an exact science. What works for one guy won't work for another. Some men will prefer that you talk dirty to them right from the start, but others want to control the action and be the man of the situation, so to speak. You can tell which category your object of lust falls into by testing him out.

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Sidle up to the man you're interested in and whisper into his ear. If he's cool with you invading his personal space like that, then you're in luck, and you can go a bit further. Say something naughty - not anything dirty, but just naughty enough to get him thinking in the right direction. Here are a few examples:

- Mmm...that's a good drink. Do you like to suck the lime when you're done?
- This throbbing beat makes me think about other throbbing things...
- You've got the kind of lips that say you would be a good kisser. Are you?

Once you know how he's going to respond, you can try something a bit dirtier. But if he pulls away or acts offended, you've just discovered a man who wants to lead at his own pace, and he might not appreciate that you know exactly what you want. In that case, it's probably time to move on to someone who is a bit more receptive.

Dirty talk can begin gradually, first with the naughty innuendo and later with the more explicit terms. Ask questions about his sex life - that always gets things started, and you can do it with an air of innocent curiosity. Try something like this:

- I wonder how many men think about sex while they are on the dance floor. Do you?
- I've never been brave enough to have sex in a public bathroom...what about you?
- Your friend seems to want to go home with both girls. Do you ever have trouble deciding? 

Once the ice breaks with some sweet innuendo, you can follow his lead to find out how much dirty talk he's into. You might wind up whispering a fantasy into his ear while you gyrate on the dance floor, or you might find yourself back at his place with a glass of wine, taking it slow and easy. Talking dirty to a guy is all about timing and reading his cues. What is he trying to tell you?

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Denise Brienne is an expert at teaching women how to talk dirty. She created the original dirty talking guide which is an award winning internet guide that is available for anyone just starting out with talking dirty. You can get instant access to her beginners guide at dirtytalkingguide.com. Denise also runs the wildly successful and popular blog called Dirty Talk 101. This exclusive member's only blog allows you to take your dirty talk, love making and sexual experiences to the next level. Get started today by visiting one of her sites.